P.M.S. – Not a Punchline

This post addresses PMS, but men, don’t change the channel! Just as it’s important to know your woman’s body (assuming you’re in a heterosexual relationship) in order to please her, but understanding doesn’t stop at the bedroom door. Just as she would educate herself and support you if you had issues surrounding male sexual reproduction, be — not just a man, but THE man— her man and get to know who she is and what makes her human.

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Lia Holmgren
Why Is He Staring At Other Women?

Do you know that feeling? You’re in a restaurant or walking down the street with your partner when he suddenly sees an attractive female and time stops. He seems to forget you’re standing there next to him. ou’re talking to him and you feel like you are practically non-existent for some period of time until he lands back on planet Earth, looks over at you with his eyes scared and full of guilt, wondering if you had caught his ocular indiscretion.

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Vaginal Pain During Intercourse- SOLVED

I handed a tissue to my client, Eileen*. “I’m so afraid he’s going to cheat, but I don’t know what to do! It hurts when we have sex… I try to do it for him, but it just gets too painful,” she said through tears. Her partner, Ron*, turned and hugged her. That was the first time she felt comfortable enough to express that to him.

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Lia Holmgren
German Naked Spa Experience

Over the Christmas Holidays, I decided to travel to my second home, Germany and visit my friends and family. When I lived there, one of my weekly hobbies was visiting a German FKK Spa. (“The social nudity movement includes a large range of variants including “ naturism”, “nudism”, “Freikörperkultur (FKK)”, the “free beach movement” as well as generalized “public lands/public nudity” advocacy.” -Wikipedia).

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Sex Toys and Shame

One of the most common questions I get from men and women in my coaching sessions is about how to bring desire back to the bedroom when it has faded or how to extend the quality of sex life in a new, young relationship. It seems that we all dream about experiencing passionate desire with our loved one forever. When the intensity wanes or the newness is gone, we wish to feel that same sexual craving again.

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Just a Kiss Please

Men struggle with intimacy. This isn’t just a cliché or stereotype; this is something I’ve noticed in my coaching and counseling sessions. Men typically have problems opening up and giving or receiving love and warmth. What are they worried about? Perhaps they think that by hiding their emotions, they will be seen as “man enough.”

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7 Reasons Why You Are Not Into Him Anymore

“I’m just not into my husband anymore!”

I have heard this sentence many times in my coaching office. Take one client, for example, who felt trapped in a sexless marriage. Let’s call her Sarah.

“I have no desire to sleep with him and I’m not attracted to him anymore” Sarah complained. “I think it is hormonal, or perhaps because of the baby I had?” 

“The baby you had is five-years-old now,” I pointed out, lightly suggesting it might not be the reason. 

 

 

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