“I’m just not into my husband anymore!”
I have heard this sentence many times in my coaching office. Take one client, for example, who felt trapped in a sexless marriage. Let’s call her Sarah.
“I have no desire to sleep with him and I’m not attracted to him anymore” Sarah complained. “I think it is hormonal, or perhaps because of the baby I had?”
“The baby you had is five-years-old now,” I pointed out, lightly suggesting it might not be the reason.